Nice to meet you!
〰️Marlee Gebhard, LCSW (she/they) 〰️
I’m a pleasure-centered and strengths-focused therapist who is passionate about helping queer, trans, and neurodivergent folks let go of limiting cultural expectations, tune into what they truly want, and embrace self-kindness. If you struggle with issues related to sexual health, identity, eroticism, executive functioning, self-doubt, overthinking, harsh self-criticism, or people-pleasing, we might be a good fit. My hope is by the end of our work together, you will develop pride in your most authentic self and be able to move through anxieties with confidence and care.
My approach is warm, trauma-informed, celebrates all identities, and is rooted in mindfulness. I see my clients as the experts in their own experiences and tailor treatment to meet each person’s individualized needs.
The styles I pull from most often are Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Feminist Therapy. I have a deep appreciation for the lived experiences of my clients and am grateful you’re here.
Get to know me
Self-proclaimed sex nerd. This photo is from The Museum of Sex in NYC. And yes, I highly recommend visiting.
Me and my BFF at Emo Nite. Holler at me if you like Knocked Loose, La Dispute, Bring Me the Horizon, Modest Mouse, Show Me the Body, The Strokes, alt-J, or my personal not so guilty pleasure, Fame on Fire.
Education
Master’s of Science in Social Work | University of Tennessee
Bachelor’s of Arts | Lipscomb University
Sex Therapy Certificate | University of Michigan
Trauma Treatment Certificate | University of Tennessee
Autism Across the Lifespan Certificate | Zur Institute
License & Affiliations
LCSW
Licensed Clinical Social Worker
IL License #149.025532
CO License #09931583
AASECT Member
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists
KPACT Member
Kink and Polyam Aware Chicago Therapists
Meet the Team
Please do not hesitate to share if you’d prefer my feline colleagues not join us
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Ella
CHIEF NAPPING OFFICER
Ella is a Siberian Forest Cat who elegantly occupies my desk, lending her serene presence to the occasional session, often drifting into a peaceful slumber
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Pumpkin
PAW-SITIVE ENERGY MANAGER
Pumpkin, the gray and white tabby, is my steadfast timekeeper. She gently nudges me to remember to take my breaks on time #selfcare
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Bestie
CHIEF CUDDLE OFFICER
Bestie, the calico queen, reigns over lap time, ensuring ample cuddles and moments of affection, infusing our sessions with warmth and companionship
TL;DR
What is sex therapy?
A form of talk therapy that helps you explore
Intimacy
Desire
Identity
Pleasure
Grounded in evidence-based approaches and a nonjudgmental, affirming stance
No physical touch or sexual activity takes place during sessions
What I support…
Identity development
Sexual desire discrepancies
Sexual problems
Painful sex
Difficulty with orgasm
Dissociation during sex
Sensory sensitivities related to sex
How I work…
Pleasure-centered
Anti-oppressive
Trauma-informed
Mindfulness-based
Feminist approach
ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)
DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy)
CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)
Who I work with…
Adults who are*…
LGBTQ+
Asexual or aromantic
Neurodivergent
Disabled
Kinky or BDSM-involved
Sex workers
Polyamorous or non-monogamous
Single and exploring intimacy on their own terms
Individuals who are curious to expand their lens on gender, sexuality, and relationships
* If you don’t see your identity listed here but feel connected to my approach, you’re still welcome. I’d love to learn more about your experience
What I believe…
Talking about sex will change the world
You don’t have to “fix” yourself to be worthy of intimacy
There’s really no “TMI” in therapy
Where can you see me?
Colorado (virtual only)
Illinois (virtual only)